Belonging and the Scene

With her film debut, director Monica Dhaka explores the world of kink community by utilising the story of Pup Momo.

 

Momo is part of this community, a homosexual who enjoys rubber puppy play, meaning that he dresses in fetish clothing that includes a rubber mask that resembles a dog's head for fun and sexual satisfaction. When he enters role play, he calls himself ''Momo''. Via this short documentary, viewers will get to know him and learn about the world of fetish.

 

Momo is the centre of this film and he is interviewed, with his voice-over covering his childhood, how he currently lives his life and the kinky community. Attracted to role-playing fetishes, Pup Momo grew up in the United States, with parents from the Netherlands. He won the title of Mr. Rubber Netherlands 2022, proving his strong dedication to this group of people. With the use of home video footage, viewers get to see him as a playful child.

 

Through Pup Momo's words and archival footage, people will get an idea of what the kink community is, how big it is, with competitions like the one won by Momo, magazines such as the Mr B Wings (a BDSM magazine to which Bohnen is a contributor) and parades like the Amsterdam Pride Canal Parade proving how widely established it has become. All this is accompanied by Dhaka's emotional music.

 

One of the purposes of this documentary is to shed light on the world of kinky people and defend them, to reveal that they are not disturbed or antisocial as some think they are, but individuals who are united because they share particular desires and activities and that their world is a group where everyone is accepted.

 

This fifteen-minute-long short provides a brief but thoughtful insight into the world of kink communities and shows that it is a place where people can find happiness and acceptance, where they can be who they want to be and be comfortable with self-expression. It also communicates the message that just because someone is unusual does not mean they are no good.

 

Some viewers might find the subject matter uncomfortable, however, this documentary deserves recognition because ultimately, it points out that people who are part of this network do so in order to be happy and (as the title suggests) to belong.